WHAT ARE THE WARNING SIGNS OF AN EATING DISORDER?
(Not all persons display all symptoms)
HOW CAN I HELP SOMEONE WITH AN EATING DISORDER?
An EATING DISORDER is not simply a problem with weight or food. It is actually an attempt to use weight control and food intake to solve underlying emotional conflicts or difficulties that have little to do with weight or food.
WHAT ARE REALISTIC GOALS I CAN ACCOMPLISH WHEN APPROACHING A FRIEND?
Opening the doors to discussion shows that you are willing to listen and support your friend.
Telling your friend why you are having this discussion and what you would like to see happen.
Helping your friend get information and help. This may include giving her information about available resources and helping her recognize the problem.
Realizing you can listen and be supportive, but you cannot change your friend's behavior. Trying to stop someone from bingeing, purging or starving is an unrealistic goal. This will most likely end up in a struggle for control and will only make matters worse.
Source: Eating Disorders Task Force at Northern Illinois University
Used with permission
Making Peace With Food: Freeing Yourself from the Diet/Weight Obsession, by Susan Kano
Bulimia: A Guide to Recovery: Understanding and Overcoming the Binge-Purge Syndrome, by Lindsey Hall and Leigh Cohn
Fat is Not a Four-Letter Word, by Charles Roy Schroeder, Ph.D.
The Body Betrayed: A Deeper Understanding of Women, Eating Disorders, and Treatment, by Katheryn J. Zerbe, M.D.
Surviving an Eating Disorder: Perspectives and Strategies for Family & Friends, by Michelle Siegel, Ph.D., Judith Brisman, Ph.D., and Margot Weinshel, Ph.D.
Gurze Books: Eating Disorders Bookshelf Catalog, 1-800-756-7533
Full Lives: Women Who Have Freed Themselves from Food and Weight Obsessions, by Lindsey Hall
Body Trust: Undieting Your Way to Health and Happiness, by Gayle Hayes. 60 minute Video
Body Traps: Breaking the Binds That Keep You From Feeling Good About Your Body, by Dr. Judith Rodin
GETTING HELP EARLY IS THE KEY
If you know or suspect you know someone who has an eating disorder, you can contact:
Valley Mental Health
For free information, referrals, bibliography, self-help groups, contact:
National ANAD (Anorexia Nervosa & Associated Disorders)
P.O. Box 7
Highland Park, IL 60035